LIfe has its stresses and hassles. Sometimes we may feel too worried, or depressed, or angry, or too rushed, or irritated by aggravations.
It would nice, if more of the time, we could feel both: 1. Calm and 2. Happy
John A. Schindler M.D. and his book: “How to Live 365 Days a Year” can be a big help with that. The book was written years ago but is still very relevant and accurate, today.
No, it’s not another book on “Mindfulness” or “positive thinking” or visualization. More down to earth and physical and some solid everyday advice.
It talks about how we can be “calm, and happy. –Right now.” You will also get a mini-education about: Glands and hormones. No worries, he keeps it simple and not too technical, but you will likely find it eye-opening.
What is STH? What is ACTH? What can be the long-term effect of too much of these? Who was Dr. Hans Seyle? The book mentions that “Good Emotions are your best medicine!” Several times, you will be presented with a real-life situation, and see how 2 different people handled it, one in a healthy way, the other one not so much. You can see the difference. This is realistic advice you can put into practice. You will also learn more about your body chemistry and how it affects you.
Who doesn’t want to feel more “Calm. and Happy. –Right now”? Amazon.com should have this book. Barnes & Noble should be able to order it. Get it. Read it. It is definitely “time well-spent”. 🙂 You’ll feel better. PS—I post about a variety of topics. Scroll down and see my last 12 posts, or explore my monthly archives. Thanks for stopping by. –the Owl
Do you ever “People-watch”? It can be amazing what you see.
What is up with these people who are INDOORS and walk around wearing a thick wooly head-cap? Is it Raining indoors? Or are you bald-headed?
What is up with 45 yr. old women who have a Metal nose-ring right smack in the bottom-middle of their nose? As if they have a metal booger hanging out.
And whats up with Black men who walk around on the job at work with their pants half-way down their butt-crack and with their underwear crunched and rolled up on top of their low-hanging pants but still below their shirt….in front of others in the breakroom with no shame as if everybody else does it, ummm, NO! They don’t. 98% of most other folks don’t. So why do they? It a helluva way to “get attention” or to be noticed.
Many people, at work, having lunch in the breakroom, will be on their cell phone. This has become more common but—-what is up with those people who are not only on their cell phone but are also wearing a BIG set of Noise-cancelling Headphones AND talking out loud to whoever 20 minutes of their half-hour lunchbreak, in front of 7 or 8 other people in the breakroom, as if no one was there but them?
Once I was on “a first-date” with a woman and I silently noticed that as she was eating her dinner she ordered…..she ate allllll her steak (only. first.) and then alllll of her broccoli, til it was all gone…and then alllll her French fries……one. thing. only. at. a. time. Ok, it’s harmless and you could say: “so what” –but –do you know anyone else who does this? Are they really *that* proud of their “orderliness”? What’s up? People are funny.
“Do we have anything in common”? That’s the Magic question.
Finding a sweetie who is a “kindred spirit” can be wonderful. And—if they are “into” the wrong things, can be just as easily bbooorrrrrrrriinnngggg!!!
That said, when I’m on a date, I don’t wanna hear about (in no particular order):
1.Community Activism or “making a difference”. At all. Go away. Boring as hell.
2. Climate change or the landfills or over-population.
3. The Middle east.
4. New Age “Lightworkers”, Deepok Chopra or Oprah.
5. Recycling, composting or a vegan diet or anything about gluten-free.
6. Special needs anything or wounded warriors –(sad as they are).
7. Classical music, oil paintings or opera’s.
Having said that, now…go forth and be interesting!
Ever have one of one of those moments where you could kick yourself for not paying more attention to something useful, earlier? Learning more about Psychology and Personality and abilities can be fun. And useful.
Meet: The Clifton Strengths Finder. You can find out what your Top 5 Strengths are.
What comes easy to you? What do you already do well? What are you already strong in? Instead of focusing so much on “overcoming weaknesses”, why not take your strengths and really develop them into something dazzling? Let your competence and abilities Shine!
Here, on YouTube, Tim Collins starts with educating us about the 34 strengths. There is a video for each strength. Many of these are under 2 minutes, and informative! Thanks, Tim Collins.
It’s fun, and informative, to read about the 16 Types (personality types) and the MBTI, also known as the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. But one thing I have not seen discussed or written about specifically is: a comparison between SP’s and NJ’s. There has been things written about SP’s and NT’s, But what about SP vs. nJ? This video by EJarendee on Youtube is the closest I’ve heard of that would deal with that. I thought it was a good video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wOdPRVZIIjU (please highlight and paste that link into your browser and watch on Youtube. I don’t know why it won’t already highlight here. Other links do). One thing I would add on my own, in general, it sounds like INTJ’s are more “grand schemer/planners” (future oriented) where ISTP’s are more immediate “what’s the best thing that I can do right now” (present moment)? My opinion. Hope you like the video. Thanks, Youtube.
Boundaries! Personal Rights! How much will relatives or friends accuse you of being selfish or being a “narcissist” if you dare to lay down any rules? How do -you- decide whether it’s being “too controlling” or you are excersizing a legitimate right, even if someone else doesn’t like it?